Friday, February 27, 2009
uber quick
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Randomness
This week I was at the store WAY more then I like to be...let's face it...shopping with kids can make for an exhausting day. There was plenty of cleaning, laundry, dishes, cooking - and of course taking care of the kiddo's - which pretty much takes up all of my time anyway. A few meetings and events - video work and planning - a couple projects - preparing and giving a short workshop over the weekend - hmmm, no wonder I'm tired! =)
Annnyway, I'm guessing no one really cares to look over my weeks schedule - so moving on! =)
Chris is back to his camp and getting back into the routine of things. Maybe he'll write a blog about his time at home in the near future. =)
The boys are adjusting to daddy being gone again. It's taking Luke longer to re-adjust, but he's doing ok. We made sure to take him to the airport with us the morning Chris left so he could see him physically leaving. I wasn't sure how he would take going to bed one night with daddy home and the next morning waking up and daddy just being gone again. So we thought it was important for him to see Chris get on the airplane and fly away. I think this helped Luke understand immensely!
Since it was a very early morning flight, it was just Chris, Luke and I. Chris had bought both the boys a stuffed animal to give to them before he left. He gave Will a little elephant the night before and he gave Luke a little polar bear at the airport. It was a really cool thing for the boys to have something tangible to hold on to from daddy. Luke sleeps with his polar bear in bed every night and proudly proclaims that it's "fwum daddy!"
Will was 2 1/2 months old when Chris left. So when Chris came home - though he's seen pictures and video of daddy - he really didn't know how to make the connection. By the end of R&R, he was enjoying his time with daddy - but will still need more time to get to know Chris. He'll be a few months from his second birthday before he gets a really good opportunity to bond with his daddy. Until then, we'll just continue showing him pictures, video and talking all about daddy to him.
Short of being completely and overwhelmingly exhausted - and obviously missing my hubby - I am doing fine. I knew it was important to get the boys and myself back into a routine as quickly as possible. I am slowly trying to get Will to sleep through the night...because he has not slept through the night - ever - not even once in his entire life....I'm not sure he's even come close to it! The accumulation of sleep loss has really started to add up and fatigue is really starting to be a daily battle to fight now. So - since I don't want to be completely drained of energy due to sleep deprivation for who knows how long - it's time to start working with him to sleep for longer periods of time...and one day...hopefully sooner then later I hope he'll sleep the whole night through...sigh - I've completely forgotten what it feels like to get more than 2-3 hours of solid sleep at one time.
Anyway - this was an extremely random post - speaking of sleep deprivation - this is the kind of post you get when it's late and I'm running on fumes. So please forgive me if this post made no sense at all...I'll try to post the next one during the day!! =)
Anyway, Will is screaming and I can barely hold my head up - so here are a few pictures before I sign off for the night:
Before we headed off to church, I attempted to snap a few pictures of the boys. This is always easier said than done!
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Teaching kids how to pray...
I believe in many ways that in teaching our children how to pray, we must lead by example (as I learned from my parents, grandparents, family and friends.) As I consider this, I wonder if I have been leading by example for Luke and Will. Sure they're young - but they do pick up on every little thing that happens. Luke misses nothing - he hears everything - observes everything - and is super perceptive in his surroundings. It makes me wonder if I have just assumed that spiritual matters are "above his head" at his age...when in fact - he is probably quite capable of understanding more then I give him credit for. I mean, I'm not talking about reading him Kierkegaard's theological ideas on the "Works of Love" or anything like that...but talking to him about knowing Jesus - learning about Him - reading bible stories out of his Children's Bible on a consistent basis...maybe he could begin to grasp that a bit?
During the Advent season, I tried to reiterate the nativity story and that Jesus is our Hope, Peace, Joy and Love. I was surprised at how quickly he learned and would repeat what I told him about Jesus. It's pretty cool to see how much their brains soak up! It has really made me think about the example I am to my children. Do they see me living out a life completely devoted to God? Do they see me turning to God in prayer in the good times and bad? I guess if this seminar session helps no one else - it's opened my eyes to my need to live my spiritual life out in view of my kiddos.
Anyway, the real reason I wrote this post was to see if any of you would be willing to share any sort of insight - I would love to hear it!
Did someone teach you how to pray? If so, who and how? Was it more by example or some other way?
Did you teach your children how to pray and if so, what did you do? Do you have any ideas on creative ways to teach children how to pray?
Any testimonies about people who were prayer warriors in your life or testimonies of how you've seen prayer work in the lives of children?
Any insight you may have would be very helpful to me as we prepare our notes and layout for this seminar session.
Thanks!!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Local Ministers License
As most of you know, one of the main reasons the boys and I chose to ERD was so I could continue to pursue my passions of Visual Arts Ministry and continue working towards Ordination in the Church of the Nazarene. The only way I could do that was to come back home and begin my work in the church. Once Chris made his final decision that this would be his last year in the military, we knew that this would be the right time for me to get back into working towards my ministry goals.
It's been since our time at Manhattan Church of the Nazarene - (We miss you guys so much!!!) - that we've been actively involved in church work. It was very hard to go from being super involved - to not being involved at all in Georgia and Germany- short of attending church services.
Just like our church in Manhattan, this church has been incredibly gracious and open to my desires to pursue the ministry - which I am so greatful for! I feel so blessed that they have plugged me into the Visual Arts Ministry! On February 8, 2009 they presented me with my local ministers license! Though it was granted after my interview last Fall- the church waited to present the certificate to me until Chris was home for R&R. It was so special to be able to share that moment with Chris. He has bent over backwards to support my calling and my pursuit of ministry. I can't even begin to count the hours he has spent helping, encouraging and working alongside me. So it was extraordinarily appropriate to stand by his side at that moment.
So here are a few pictures my family snapped from the balcony during the presentation. The next step is to complete some ministerial study courses, prepare for my district license and continue to serve and work in the church. Once Chris returns for good and we get settled in - I will be able to commit more time to all the above - which I'm super excited about. I can't wait to see what the future holds!
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Bittersweet
We are glad to be on the last half of this long separation. Chris's departure this time was not nearly as daunting as his initial departure in April. Now we just have to get through the rest of the deployment and the mandatory stabilization time in Germany. After that - we'll finally be together again! YAY! So we're still looking at a rather significant chunk of time - more than 6 months - less than a year (sorry for being so vague - but I'm a bit hesitant to give out too much info for security reasons)...which still seems like forever - but at least we're closer to the end goal! =)
Though I could fill up many more paragraphs about things we did over R&R and how nice it was to be together, I'll upload some photos so you can see for yourself!
I think this is where we left off from the last blog I wrote about our R&R...
We were able to take the boys to the zoo - we had a blast checking out all the animals and playing on the playground afterwards.
Luke was in a Caravan program - he loves the stage! It's really funny to watch him because he's fairly shy otherwise...put him on the stage and the boy shines!
Chris was able to go to a fight with his brother Randy. From the sounds of it, it was a pretty cool experience. The fighter they went to see was Fernando Guerrero - who hails from around here! The rest of us watched it at home! Everyone was excited when Guerrero won!
A family picture before church...
We turned Will's carseat around last week. Though he wasn't sure what to think at first - he's loving it!
The boys!
Visiting the horses...
Mom and Dad Scott walking our cute little furry pups!
Throwing rocks in the river...
We decided to take the boys to see the ocean one day. Though it was a might chilly - we all really enjoyed the day!
Luke loved having a giant sandbox at his disposal!
Mommy and Will!
The family together!
Playing in the sandbox at home...I guess they just can't get enough of playing in the sand!
I let Luke pick out a present for his daddy - and he picked out some Cars...what else is there? =)
Go Phins!
Luke trying out his new T-ball set...let's just say it didn't last inside very long...it was moved outside about 5 minutes after Chris gave it to him. =)