Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Our destiny is to be sick…all the time…

I’m not sure why, but we just seem destined to be sick. Just as Luke was getting over his last sinus cold, he caught another respiratory virus along with another stomach virus. Will had yet to completely recover from his last sinus cold and caught the respiratory virus right after Luke did. And of course, Chris and I both have had a touch of the stomach bug and we’ve both started getting the lovely colds. When will it all end?! I feel so bad for Luke and Will – poor boys have been sick with one thing after the next since before Valentines Day. ‘sigh’

So needless to say, I’ve kept quite busy with two sick boys. Chris continues to remain very busy at work as all the last minute details are completed for going downrange. He has a 4-day this weekend which we plan to use to try to get better and to do a mountain of paperwork and errands that need to get done before he leaves.

Here are quick updates on the boys:

Luke:

Luke’s appetite has suffered greatly with this last round of sickness, which is really frustrating since I felt like he was starting to do better with his eating. Anytime Luke gets sick it seems to really affect his eating. I hope that his appetite will soon return so we can get some meat on those bones!

With this last cold, Luke has learned how to blow his nose. Right now he likes to do it because it’s something new – it’s pretty funny! We’ll hold the Kleenex to his nose and say, “blow” and he’ll give a little blow with a smile.

The other day, Luke started jumping with both feet off the ground! He’s leaped around and attempted to jump up and down before, but this time he finally got both feet off the ground at the same time. He was so excited! He’ll crouch all the way down, hands on the floor, and then with all his might he’ll juuuuump into the air. He’ll do it over and over again.

I’ve also noticed that he has started to color in a different way. Before he would just make a mark or two on the page, but now he’s starting to circle his crayon around the page, pick different colors, and even start coloring specific objects on the page. It’s obviously not in the lines yet, but it was pretty exciting that he’s learning how to color a picture. Of course I think Chris and I have just as much fun coloring as he does!

Some of the things he does is so endearing. He’ll try to give his puppy a drink from his sippy, or feed a stuffed animal a cracker. He’ll cook a meal on his grill kitchen and try to put shoes on his doggie. It’s pretty funny to see him mimic so much of our behavior.

Some of his behavior is not so endearing though. =) He’s started throwing tantrums a lot more then usual. It may be because he’s sick and doesn’t feel well…at least I hope that’s the reason. He’s very adamant about what he wants, and if he can’t have it – tantrum time!

Luke is still loving on his little brother although the more he gets used to Will being around, the more we have to remind him to be gentle. He’s not usually intentional with his roughness – he just wants to be able to play with him. Lately he’s started trying to read his books to Will – too cute! He’s very willing to share his toys (for now) with him. He also likes to have Will sit in his lap. He’ll try to pick him up (luckily Will is to heavy for Luke to be able to do so – otherwise I’d worry about him dropping him) so we’ll tell Luke to sit down and then put Will in his lap. Luke loves it!

Will:

Poor Will has been sick for half his life so far. I’ve tried to get him into the doctor for the last three days, but it’s impossible to get an appointment. His cough sounds horrible and I’m very suspicious he might have RSV from the research I’ve done. From what I’ve read though, there’s not much a doctor can do for a mild case of RSV. Obviously for a serious case they give them medications and hospitalize them. Will hasn’t had a fever so we’ve just been keeping a very very close eye on his cough. If he gets any worse we’ll have to take him to the ER in Landstuhl (since we can’t get him an appointment here.)

I started doing tummy time with Will. Since he’s been so congested the past few weeks, I hadn’t been putting him on his tummy much (though before he got sick way back when, he was taking some of his naps on his tummy.) He loves being on his tummy and I really want him to be able to work on strengthening his neck, so I've started putting him back on his tummy again. I feel really lucky that he likes tummy time so much as I know a lot of babies don’t at first. I know Luke didn’t like it at first!

I have no clue how much Will weights at this point. Thankfully he’s still been nursing fairly well despite his many colds. Speaking of nursing, I’ve very slowly started to reintroduce dairy into my diet. I’ve had a little bit of cheese and chocolate (wow do I miss chocolate!) He seems to be doing better with it, though it’s hard to tell for sure at this point. I do think it’s promising though!

Will is quite alert. He loves to look at his play gyms or mobiles. He’s even started trying to swipe at the toys on his play gym. He’s smiling more and more and making those way cute cooing noises. He still likes to be held a lot – but we’re slowly managing to lay him down for longer periods of time…though he’s not always happy about it.

Alrighty, I’m gonna post this. It’s taking me on average 3 days to write a blog…and I have a sneaking suspicion it’ll take a lot longer once Chris leaves. In fact, I’m not sure I’ll get anything done (other then taking care of the kids) when Chris leaves! Hehehe!

Luke's expression says it best - "I'm tired of being sick!"

Lately, the weather has been more of what I expected Baumholder to be in the winter. Now that it's spring, it's cold, windy and snowing allllll the time. Here is Will all bundled up!

This never happens - Luke fell asleep on his truck chair...

Will doing Tummy time!

And lift that head!

Luke trying to help Will do tummy time...

Luke entertaining Will...


Will sitting on Luke's lap...


Luke reading Will a story...

We got Luke a booster seat so we could recline the highchair and let Will sit at the table during our meals. That way Chris and I didn't have to hold him and try to eat at the same time. Luke was very excited about getting to sit in his big boy chair. Chris had just taken it out of the box and put it together in this picture. Luke started sitting in it and putting the tray on even before we got it on a chair.

Here he is at the table. We did raise the booster seat higher after this picture was taken. At first he was about eye level with his food! Now that it's higher, it fits him just right. He can even climb in and out of it...and is working on strapping himself in too!

Will in the high chair (the back is reclined)... the funny part of it all was that we didn't really have to adjust the straps that much! Luke is so skinny and Will is so big that the strap setting worked for both of them. Will enjoys being able to sit up and see what’s going on – it’s made meal time much much easier.

Luke has started counting to 3. I'm not sure he completely understands the concept of numbers yet - but it's so cute to hear him counting even if he is just mimicking us. Here he is reading one of his counting books...

Will sitting up and alert...

Happy Boy!

Just a cute picture of Will laying his head in Luke's hand...


Update:

We ended up taking Will to the ER last night. He started wheezing badly and breathing really fast so we were pretty concerned considering he’s still so young. I called the nurse advice line and they said to take him into the ER. So at 7pm, we all loaded into the car, drove in the nasty snowy/sleety weather and headed for Landstuhl. Once we got there it took foooooooorever to be seen. I think it was close to midnight when the doctor finally got in there. They did a rapid test for RSV which came back negative, but then the doctor said a lot of the rapid tests come back negative and then when they culture them later, find that they were actually positive. He went on to say that he wouldn’t be surprised at all if he did have RSV. Since his wheezing was pretty bad, they gave him a breathing treatment and had a chest X-ray done. Thankfully the X-ray came back fine. The doctor prescribed an inhaler for him to help with his breathing. I think we left the hospital at around 1:20am in a bad snow/sleet storm and got home at 2am. Luke was a mess. He did pretty well for the first few hours at the ER – but because we were there waaaaaaay past his bedtime (and because he’s still sick as well) he had one meltdown after the next. If it wasn’t that Chris and I are miserably sick as well, we might have been able to entertain him a little better. All in all, we all made out ok though. I’m just relieved that Will is ok.
Alrighty, now I’m going to post the blog. =)

Saturday, March 08, 2008

The Toddler Bed...and an update

Saturday, March 8th:

We’ve been planning to switch Luke over to a toddler bed for some time now. We tried last weekend by converting the crib into a toddler bed, but I just didn’t feel comfortable with how high it had him off the ground. I was afraid he might hurt himself if he rolled off. So we decided to purchase a toddler bed. They only had one style and one bed left at the PX here, so we took it. Chris was able to pick it up during the week and put it together today. Of course Luke wanted to help. =) After we got the bed set up, we stayed in Luke’s room so he could adjust to the bed. He would climb up in it and we would say, “show us how you go night-night” and he would lay down and we would praise him. We kept telling him how he got to sleep in his “big boy” bed now and how exciting that was. His afternoon nap was our first try. We put him down, said “night-night” and left the room. He got up around 4-5 times in all before falling asleep. It was amazing! We actually used the Super Nanny technique. The first few times he got out one of us would go in and tell him he needed to get in bed and go “night-night.” After a few times doing that, Chris just went in and put him in bed without saying anything to him. For some reason that seemed to do the trick. Super Nanny really knows her stuff! So he slept his whole nap in the bed. When it was time for him to get up, Chris opened the door so he knew he could come out when he was ready. He happily trotted out of the room well rested. He thinks his new bed is just the coolest thing ever. When we got home from grocery shopping, he ran into his room (with his coat and hat and shoes still on from being outside) and jumped into bed saying, “nigh-nigh nigh-nigh.” It was so adorable! Tonight is the BIG test…to see if he’ll sleep in the bed through the night. We put him down a little while ago and he’s still in bed – that’s a good sign! We’ll see how the rest of the night progresses. Anyway, I just wanted to post a few pictures of this big milestone! It just doesn’t seem possible that Luke can be old enough to be sleeping in a bed.

Monday, March 10th:

Luke did AMAZING his first night in the toddler bed (Saturday night.) He laid down right away and went to sleep. We kept listening to see if he had gotten up, but he stayed in his bed the whole night! We are so proud of our big boy! He continues to do really well with his bed. Last night he did roll off the bed and fall on the comforter I had placed on the floor for just such an event. He wasn’t hurt and thankfully doesn’t seem to remember it as of this morning (though last night he wasn’t very happy about the whole ordeal.) I’m just so excited this transition to the “big boy bed” is going well. Now if only potty training could go this smoothly! =)

Tuesday, March 11th:

Luke continues to do amazing in his bed! This has been such an incredibly smooth transition from the crib – I’m amazed! I can’t say how much we’re proud of our little boy. I can’t believe he’s old enough to be sleeping in a bed. They grow up so quick!

In other news – we are all finally mending from the last round of colds. Will is still pretty congested, but he seems to be feeling better. I’ve also found the missing puzzle piece in his stomach issues – caffeine. And if you know me, you know this was quite a blow! I am a coffeeholic. The difference is undeniable though. So the elimination now includes, dairy, peanut butter and anything caffeine. Thankfully I’ve found decaffeinated coffee, tea and coke at our commissary. Though I am suffering through caffeine withdrawal, at least I can still drink some coffee, tea and coke…though it’s not quite the same without that wonderful dose of caffeine. But Will’s stomach feels much better with these eliminated. He still wants to be held around the clock – and putting him down almost always results in a screaming fit like you wouldn’t believe. I have managed to lay him down a few times for a few minutes without a fussy fit. I hope that means we’re making progress. He continues to eat often and is quite heavy (14 pounds on our home scales – but that’s probably not the most accurate reading.) I think I’m going to have to pull out the 3-6 month old onesies! We also had to go up to size 2 diapers a few weeks ago. He’s smiling more and more and his personality is starting to show through.

Luke is talking constantly. He repeats everything we say – it’s so funny! He tries so hard to play with Will. He’ll bring his toys to Will and lay them on him – or he’ll try to offer food or his sippy to Will. If he see’s Will’s pacifier, he’ll try to jam it into his mouth…usually backwards. =) When we’re out in public, he will often times go over to the car seat look at the people around us and proclaim to them, “Brodur.” It melts my heart! He does seem to be going through a time of high defiance right now though. We’re trying to find and figure out what discipline measures work the best for him. I do think that this may be his way of acting out to get attention. Will has been very demanding of my attention and though I try hard to give Luke as much attention as possible, I can’t give it like I used to. Though he doesn’t take anything out on Will or act jealous around Will – I think this may be his way of saying – “Pay attention to me!”

Luke got an army hair cut yesterday (by daddy.) He wasn’t as thrilled about this haircut, but he endured through it. I don’t have any pictures of his new short cut, but I’ll post one soon. He looks so much older with his hair so short.

Chris is still staying really busy at work and I’m still really busy with the kids. The weather has been icky – really dreary and rainy…just like the usual weather here in Baumholder! =) I’m looking forward to some sunny spring days.

Well, I’m going to post this. If I don’t post it now, it may take me another 3 days to complete (since it took that long to get this blog written.)

Hope all is well with each and every one of you!

Until next time…


Luke and Daddy putting the toddler bed together...




Luke trying out the bed...



Luke showing us how he goes "nigh-nigh."


Luke and Will hanging out on his new bed...




Will smiling at Luke...



Daddy and Will...



Mommy, Luke and Will...


"You talking to me?"


Daddy, Luke and Will...


Mommy and Will...


"I am huge!"



The Family...


"Watch out Mommy! I'm gonna get you wet!"
Playing in Play-Doh...
Daydreaming about the next meal...
I was sitting on the couch with Will the other day and Luke brought me an empty bread bag. Thinking he had brought me the empty one I had just thrown away, I told him to go and put it back in the trash. When he kept saying, "bwead, bwead" I realized he must have grabbed the loaf of new bread on the table and dumped it somewhere...yep, that's what he had done!
Will sitting on the couch all snuggled up...


Our last snow a few days ago...


Luke wanted to share these toys with Will...don't worry, none of them were heavy...
For Uncle Randy! Luke insisted that Will wear this hat. If I tried to take it off, Luke would put it right back on. I guess he wants Will to play baseball!


Friday, March 07, 2008

Smile!


Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Are you guys still there?

Hey all!

Sadly I don’t really have time to do a big update right now, but I wanted to let you all know that we’re still alive and kicking. =) Everyone is sick…again. We can’t seem to get rid of this bug that’s going around post. Luke started feeling better last week only to get sick again this week. Will was just getting better and is now getting sick again as well…and Chris is getting sick too. Along with dealing with illness, we’ve been incredibly busy with the upcoming deployment. We’re beginning to feel a little overwhelmed with the amount of things we need to do before Chris leaves. It’s hard to believe that he will be heading off in a matter of weeks. We’re going to try our hardest to spend some good quality family time together in these next few weeks. We’re even hoping to go on a few small trips – if we can all get back to good health that is.

Anyway, there’s so much more I want to blog about – but finding a spare moment has been virtually impossible. Every second of every day has been consumed with something lately. I’ll try to do a quick update of Luke and Will real quick though.

Luke:

Luke is talking more and more and more. He’s learning the appropriate times to say “please” and “thank you” which is so sweet. This week we will be setting up a toddler bed for him. We tried to take the side off the crib, but it was still too high off the ground for me to feel comfortable with. So we ordered him a toddler bed. I’ll put up pictures once we get it in and set up. He’s getting quite tall – in fact, he’s in 24 month clothes now. He’s actually trying new foods here and there too. Some days he eats great – others he barely eats at all. I’m told that’s fairly normal though. He’s really into sports and trucks/cars right now. He’s learning his colors…and his presidents (can you tell Chris is a history buff!) We have a laminated picture of all the presidents and right now Luke can point out Lincoln, Washington and Bush.

Will:

Will is a giant. =) He continues to grow at a fast rate. He’s huge! He eats pretty much every 2 hours around the clock. He’s far outgrown his newborn clothes and is now wearing 3 month clothes. He’s very alert now and likes to be in the sitting position so he can see what’s going on. He enjoys looking at his mobiles and play gyms. He’s also started to coo, which I love! It’s such a sweet sound! He’s even smiling which melts our hearts! He is a very fussy baby. I’ve had to give up dairy, peanut butter and tea because his stomach can’t quite take it yet. I remember going through this time with Luke too. I know that once Will’s tummy starts to mature and doesn’t hurt as much, he’ll begin to settle down and become less fussy. It is challenging at times when he’s fussing and Luke is in need of attention at the same time – we have many moments like that on a daily basis. Luke is so in love with Will though, so usually he is good about me needing to hold Will 24/7. I know I should feel ok about putting Will down and just letting him cry – but since he’s been sick, and his stomach is so upset many times, I just don’t have the heart. When he gets a little older, I know I’ll need to do it so he can learn to self-soothe, but for now I will hold him…even if it is 24 hours a day. =)

Alright, Luke is clamoring to get out of bed, so I gotta run. I do apologize for being so far behind on blogging and e-mailing. I don’t know when things will settle down here, but I’ll try to get caught back up when I can. I just want you to all know that even though I can’t update as much as before – I still think of you all and miss you all so much!

Here are a few pics:



Luke loves being outdoors…


Here is Will wrapped up in the Moby wrap…



Luke brushing his teeth…



Will looking at his farm play gym…





Luke loves “Wheel” so much!



A look of defiance. Luke can be very defiant at times…I think it comes with the terrible two’s! =) He’s been in timeout more lately. I will say that he learns fairly quickly though. If he goes into timeout for acting out, he usually won’t repeat the same mistake twice…usually…=)


Daddy has his hands full!



Cute pictures and smiles all around...